to me, girls listen to alot of r&b music wich gases their head up. im not saying its a bad thing to look for the perfect fairytale love story like alor of songs explain...bt what im tryna say is alot of those love stories come with alot of tears, alot of argueing and alot of negativity tth makes someone like me not want to get into a relationship in a longtime.
like for example, me & a "fb" made it clear no feelings would be attatched...i went out on a huge limb to explain tht i want no feelings from her to me. i didnt have any for her periodd. but she got caught up & rely started liking me, now what am i to do? i kant be a dick and say i alredy told you no feelings attatched...even tho thts what shud b said. thts 2 much of a asshole move. and wats even worse is she has a boyfriend, but we still creep in the sheets. so now im in even more fucked up of a position, kus if i said someshit about no feelings attatched she'd start cryin kus she caught feelings deep for me, i guess she just got caught up & confused the sex with me liking her.lesson learned: dont make love with a fuck buddy. its a bad mistake when you put time & all tht into jus something thts suppose 2 be 30min - 1hr job. making love takes alot longer then tht, and she got caught up...it was my fault.
but my point from this f*cked up situation is tht just bkus i took my time and did everything better thn her boyfriend, she thought i'd b like tht in a relationship. communicating with her how a gf shud be & all tht. treat her how a gf shud rely be treated. even tho its kinda right then wrongg i cudnt have done shit about how she felt. she fell inlove with the times we had sex and got caught up wit it thinkin thts how things wud be in a relationship...now tht i rely think about it i did have feelings for her also....i guess i cant just stick my dick in anyone & leve, even tho i wished i cudd kus it wud make things so much easier. i knt. in the end i broke off all ties with her & havent spoken to her since tht day.
she thought the sex wud be like a relationship, and it wouldnt be. only reason why i didnt have tht mentality tht she did is bkus i no how she is within a relationship...its one of those situations where close friends start fucking =/ and thts wat happend.
i get mad at myself alot for it js bkus i lost a good friend. we were friends for almost 5 years. even b4 she was with him she asked me to take her V, and i did just so. since then we always kept things D.L, i had no choice but to...it was my 1st rele cuddy buddy so its not like i was used to things. so best thing i decided to do was to remain quiet no matter what. even tho im spilling it all right here...js venting thoughts tho lol
so i learned to watch my steps carefully. i havent rely been involved with a female more then a sexual thing for ovr 2 months & to be honest i kinda miss it.
me & my ex had the most fun i sware, with my corny jokess always keeping her smiling & me knowing i was the reason for it relyy put me at ease wen i went to bed. sadlyy i dont miss her, i js miss doing cuple things...even tho being singlee according to everyone is better theres just those things you cant do with a opposite sex friend tht u kan do with a lover. sounds cornyy but ill admit i miss having someone...i had no problem seeing her face everyday, i wasnt rely tht embaressed wen my mom cud hear my bed hitting the wall wen we had sex...for her it was. not for me tho. it was a rele relationship, i made her cry & after i actually felt bad for it, she had long convoes with my mom for god noes how long or about wat.
but my point is you cant come across soemone for you thts like this everyday. you rely just have to let things fall into place.an hope shit comes out to how u want it to.
but bein a guy were not suppose 2 have any moments like this...but idc. im jus sayinn its good to have someone tht you can rely be yurself with, without holding back....thats hard to come by nowadays.
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