well excuse me for being straight so im guna speak on guys to gurls or for the slow one, just exact opposite of wat she asked..gender wise lol
gurls alot are actually more selfconscious then guys..since alot of guys dont wear skin tite shirts there gut can slouch some. but gurls there alot different there self esteem can get knocked from normal to suicidal in seconds, depending on your choice of words
all tht being said the gurls tht are jus like sooo bomb wit the nicest body & etc. well they to have self esteem problems..maybe there boobs arent tht huge or there ass isnt as fat. or if they have boobs ass tits & face & style. they still have something to be self conscious about. because if they didnt & they had a thing for you i guess they would come up to you & just talk like a guy does to a gurl...ill get into tht a lil later in this. but they all hae imperfections.
some are easier to notice then others. girls what you need to start doing is taking ur imperfections & dont try & improve on them but yet take your strengths tht be w.e it is & work on those..but still learn to accept all ur flaws if you didnt yet
example: you have sex alot, some gurls dont like that for others girls to be doin while guys love it. but yu dont gota be ashamed of having sex..but yet rather get a fuk buddy & stay wit just ONE. use a condom everytime kus kids aint no joke.
or maybe ur a little over weight wit a gut..cool except it. & work on the things tht are good about you. if you jus take urself as u r you'll notice alot of ppl wont even care about w.e flaw you have & accept you for w.e you are..unless your KKK btw white power. lol.
but nxt is a dudes seeming so high..ughh..well since im a guy idk how me or any others come off in a females head. so i cant speak. but what runs thru most of are minds is if were guna get rejected or not. kus i meen u have some guys tht simply dont care & will tell a female dead up, to where you got others like me tht wont rely tell til we have a big show of interest from you to us..thts if were feelin you. but yet still theres some guys tht are just so shy they freeze up & those right there are your book nerds & skool band players. yea i no im bein stereotypical but thts not the point lol.
gurls if yur feelin a guy then let him noe.
but i get alot askin me for advice saying "well i do flirt with him & i still dont no if he likes me or not" & [o yeah, stop giving up so easily]
well 21st centuryy nowadaes flirting happens wit ppl tht work in ur fav. clothing store or random strangers or a klassmate w.e flirting isnt a strong enuf sign of interest. its a semi sign of interest..but it happens so much tht it send the guy or girl mixed vibes. so both are clueless on what to do.
i meen rely if we all simply js took the biggest step in any relationship & thts always the first 1. wich is telling "so & so" u like them or w.e then usually thts where u find out the answer & in most cases youll noe wen the person will give a poitive reply & if they do usually from there everythings easy.
if you rele like some1 tell them..simple as tht. who cares if u get made a fool...whats the worse tht person can say. "no..i wana stay frens". yea the feeling of rejection would suck but its not like you got caught having sex. its a little let down & you eventually get over it & can continue a good frenship.
so it doesnt matter how high or low the interest level is..we should all work on bein more blunt wit are feelings & see how far it gets us, as long as ur not ignorant assholes.
i meen shit who wudnt wana end up lookin like these 2..smile...huggin..match shirts & last but not least WHITE =D
No comments:
Post a Comment