quick post : what does it mean to really miss someone?

- it really means you miss something tht compforted you to the point where its constantly on your mind & ur body & mind is just wanting it.

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- note; this is js venting thoughts, but its an interesting one, so i js felt the need to get it off: so i kinda sas to myself after my last posts i wudnt be doing this anymore. but in tact with tht thoughts starting bursting the scene, and one in particular js made me vent & thats guna be this post

so basically it was how dudes & i can cosign kus it happend a cuple tiems in the past.
guys will do everything to get the girl tht there interested, bkus 1 of 2 reasons there sincerely interested or they js wanna boost their ego with saying "yea i use 2 tlk to her". but we'll strive so much to get tht female and do all this stuff we sorta dont normally do & spend time with them & etc.
but then once we get them..how do we keep them?
i no alot of relationships are js 2 ppl having sex, having feelings for eachother & sharing tht something "special". and ovrtime they get to see the real youi & start to fall deep.
but once they get the tht compfort point where they dnt miss you like they use 2 and etc wat happens? do u js keep going on and being yourself?
or do you js start the argueing part of the relationship then the break ups happen?
being in a relationship is a artform in a sense, you have to keep tht interest tht you had at first kiss, at first bonding moment use shared. the first time you stared into each others and wondered what they were thinkin bout hopin wit was the same as yurs, but knowing females they prolly point out a flaw on ur face in thier head lol
but my point is you have to work on keeping someone happy, theres tht weird saying dont get to compfortable b4 the rug slips under your feet and yull slip n fall.
meaning constantly remind them how beautiful they r, not everyday thing...but at the random moments & hav a meening behind..kus its gives females js tht feeliing like there hearts sinking. & make sure you have eye contact.
every now and then tell them you knew they were the 1 u wanted to be with & remind them tht they still meen something to you
dnt get to compfortable to the point where u dnt show attention like u use 2, suck ur pride up & js show her tht she rely has somethin special you see in her & not in another female
females usually suck up their pride so much. we dudes dont notice it....but the difference in a break up is the key to it.
you ask a guy does he wana break up, either 1 of a cuple answers comes up; "it dont even matter any more" "i dont want to, but it seems like its best" or worded differentlyy but it doesnt show much care from the guys part kus his prides in the way
but a female, totall opposite. they always wana try andwork things out & they take their pride in kus alot of the time wen they do tht they get denied and break up.
thts y females are so heartbroken, they let it all out and get nothing baqq. but baq on topic tht was the example i was saying....in relationships females go so much further then guys. they do the littlest things to light up a smile on are face & its taking me to type this up to realize tht the nxt female i involve myself with shud getthis kind've treatment, but only if it shows tht typeof connection.
no girl deserves a someone tht shows no care, especially at the times girls wish we cared the most we dont even care in the leastt.
tht goes wit the hole xample of them getting heartbroken bkus some females tht are sincere put alot into the relationship js hoping they get baq just half of wat they put in. but yet still tht seems to become a failure to most.
alot of guys tlk to sidelines while being in a COMMITED RELATOINSHIP. wich i dnt understand y...i use to get involved in the summer wit multiple chicks at once but slowd down since, but nvr on a gf.
im not the greatest prsn on earth, but js the way shitgoes down in relationships isnt how its suppose 2.
for instance in my last relationship i wasnt the greatest role-model boyfriend...but i didnt rely try. i said things tht were pretty ignorant & when i thot about it, it wasnt something i cud see the prsn i no saying. i had so much pride tht i didnt care about any kinda outcome from me n her & truth is i didnt.
it was relly 70/30 bkus i didnt put tht much into like she did & i realize it wasnt right for her to be such a nice prsn & give all tht to me when i cudnt giv it baq. so we tlkd & it ended on a goodnote
but reason for writing tht was it was a mistake i admit to & for the female i get into something with she has an advantage ovr my ex, & tht is a mistake tht was a lesson taught & learned.

awhilee sincee

been a little over 2 months, my computers down so my fault for no posts -_-. with alot of shit going down, to my recent breakup and school and the whole pressure to do good for the future is a load of thoughts.
but i'll update some more, who wouldve ever thought skool computers let you get on this site =D